Shit Happens…Flush it and Move On

Hey guys, its been a minute. Yes, I haven’t done a post in what seems to be ages.

I sincerely apologize 🙏

Life always happens no matter what. Nature seems to always to have its way and sometimes takes you unawares and almost throws off balance, but as a Baddo, LOL!, when life throws me lemons, I extract the juice, make the baddest lemonade, refrigerate it and then sit, relax and enjoy a tall glass of chilled lemonade. If life throws me coffee, I make me a cup, black, just the way I like it. And if life throws me stones, well, I dodge 😀

Ok so, enough with the theatrics.

Everybody at one time or the other has had shit happen in their life. Basically, sometimes, you need that shit to learn to be prepared for the things ahead. Take for example a failed marriage, a lost job, a suddenly ended relationship, etc. Of course, nobody wishes for these things. Sometimes they even happen to people who do not in any way deserve it, but this is life. The best and, at the same time, worst part about shit happening is moving on. When you hold on to that shit, you miss out on whats ahead or whats even right around the corner. Its not always easy, especially when you invested a lot of time and energy into it. What you need to know is, when something or someone or a situation is not for you, it never works out. No matter how long you try to manage it or deal with it, it never works out. The sooner you realize that, the better. Sometimes, the signs are there, very obvious and in your face, but you ignore them. Some are lucky to have these signs shown to them very early in the situation, but still ignore, mostly because of the fear of starting over. If this is your story, find the courage and strength to walk away. Walking away would definitely not be easy especially if you’ve invested a lot, but later in the future you will be glad you did. Some people are very lucky to have these situations make their own exit, on their own. Still doesn’t change the fact that it’ll hurt like crazy. In the future, after you’ve moved on, worked on yourself, become a better and upgraded YOU and are at a better place, you’ll definitely be glad that shit happened when it did.

So, after all that’s been said and done, personally, I have been working on a few things which are already in motion. You are going to be in the know as time goes on. We have to make and get and have this money and we gotta work work work work work LOL. Giving up is not an option, certainly not in my books.

Till next post, stay tuned ✌